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Can a girl make the first move and send the first message?

ForumFriendship and relationships

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  • March 5

    what do you think about woman start talking to man first time?

  • March 5

    My take is that it's not, and shouldn't be, a problem for anyone. So, why not?

    March 5 updated by XRAY948

  • March 12

    Do it.

  • March 18

    Of course, it's not anything bad.

  • March 18

    Girls like to b chased 😊

    So I don't think woman will make first move but they should 👍

  • Wednesday at 12:18am

    yes. The friendly ones.

  • Wednesday at 7:36pm

    i have a different take on this one though(just because we still have that old culture)

    if the woman's goal is to build a friendship - it is okay.

    But if you have a motive because he is cute and you want to build something - it's a no no. you might be being presumptuous and end up assuming...something(wink*if you know what i mean)

  • Thursday at 7:22am

    KAT735 wrote:

    But if you have a motive because he is cute and you want to build something - it's a no no.

    Why?

    KAT735 wrote:
    you might be being presumptuous and end up assuming...something

    But the same logic would apply to a man too, right? I'm not clear on what you're trying to get across. What's "wrong" with a woman reaching out? Don't all relationships start out as friendships anyway?

    KAT735 wrote:
    (wink*if you know what i mean)

    I don't know what you mean. Can you clarify?

  • Saturday at 10:33pm

    I do think this depends on the individual. There's no wrong or right.

    Yes, women like to be chased but in a situation where you're catching feelings for someone and he's not saying anything, it may be good to say it.

    So you'd know if you're on the same page or if you should move on rather than waiting and hoping he'll notice you someday cos he may never notice you.

  • Yesterday at 2:53am

    > "women like to be chased"

    I guess that needs a disclaimer. I'll just post this commedy skit because I think the reality of the situation is what makes it both so funny and simultaneously so annoying.

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