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To be blamed of someone else's change of "gender orientation"

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  • October 14, 2017

    If someone blamed you for his/her change of gender orientation because you broke his/her heart what would you say? Is it entirely your fault to him turned into gay/ her turned into lesbian because your not ready that time your young to commit to him/ her and you have to prioritize things? Is it right that you are to be blamed eventhough  if he has the behavior that he of being soft/ she has the behavior of being boyish eversince?

  • October 14, 2017

    SHARON525 wrote:

    If someone blamed you for his/her change of gender orientation because you broke his/her heart what would you say?

    No individual can "blame" someone else for whatever decision they made out of their own free will. The simple response is that this other person is attempting to avoid the responsibility of his immoral choice and is trying to justify it by blaming someone else --i.e. it's an excuse, and it should be pointed out as such. Note that both Adam and Eve also did the same thing in the beginning, so this is nothing new. (See Genesis 3.)

    This is no different from people who go around doing immoral things and, when confronted, say things like "the devil made me do it". No serious person should accept such a poor and lame excuse.

    People are tempted by their own desires. We're all responsible, and accountable, for our own choices and actions before God.

    "Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death." (James 1:13-15, ESV; my emphasis bold)

    I don't think there's much more to it.

    October 14, 2017 updated by XRAY948

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