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  • ANIEBIET785

    March 29, 2017

    as we grow older in life, we tend to be drawn by the need of settling down with a life partner, maybe in this jurney called ''life'' we were made to meet and have them or maybe not. all i know is, 'what you desire is what you acquire.

  • IZZY402

    March 29, 2017

    Ladies ~ our nature desires the company and companionship of a man. This is from God and therefore good. But at the same time, we are wrong to think that death will be result if this need is not fulfilled. Needing another as a companion is not like needing to take your next breath of air. That is, you can survive without companionship, at least until God has done His perfect work in you.

    Remember that marriage is a beautiful thing but is not the main thing. The ultimate purpose of all things is to praise of the glory of of the grace of God supremely manifest on calvary when the Son of God laid His life down to purchase and purify His wife. That's why He created you.

  • ANTIOCHUS176

    April 6, 2017

    Boredom is a choice. I am quite content with my single life. Do the feelings come when you see others in relationships etc - yes at times. Do I want a relationship with a Godly woman - yes, yes indeed. However, it is how we choose to manage our time here on earth. A relationship is VERY expensive (It costs money, time, energy and effort on BOTH parties). Approach it wrong and things can get ugly in the mid and long term (even way after your out of a relationship or maybe in a new one).

    But to answer the main topic - No. I have alot to do, see and know. A relationship (many variables involved when analysing who is compatible with you) may get in the way of that (seeing, doing and knowing).

  • SERA952

    April 19, 2017

    I'm sure you guys are luckier than me.

  • May 15

    Have a content life. Pray to God and leave it on his hands.prepare yourself by working on you when a husband arrives.be happy and live life.

  • XRAY948

    May 18

    > Are you bored with single life?

    No. I'm fine with it. Better to be alone wishing to be married, than married and wishing to be alone. The latter sounds like a ticket to a miserable life. So, if there's someone out there that comes along and it makes sense, then that's fine, and if there's no one, then that's fine too.

  • July 24

    It seems that people today are superficial.  Would a person date and marry someone who is poor, too tall, too short, fat, way too skinny, and so on.

    I wonder if there are females whose attractiveness on inner=qualities far outshine the outer qualities.  Of course, the prettier the woman, the less likely she exists

  • July 26

    It’s not Gods’ Will for a man to be alone, therefore let Gods’ will be fulfilled in Jesus name.

  • LOTTIE519

    September 15

    I am single but I know God's timing is perfect(doesn't mean I can't wish for the time to maybe move a bit quicker haha).

  • September 21

    I'm not bored with it. I am very lonely. I'm not getting any younger either. I miss kissing someone when I walk in or out of the house. Kissing someone goodnight and cuddle to sleep. I guess I'll have to think about getting a dog!

  • September 21

    I agree with you on this. The inner beauty matters most

    TEDDYBEAR732 wrote:

    It seems that people today are superficial.  Would a person date and marry someone who is poor, too tall, too short, fat, way too skinny, and so on.

    I wonder if there are females whose attractiveness on inner=qualities far outshine the outer qualities.  Of course, the prettier the woman, the less likely she exists

  • September 21

    Being single sucks. But then at the right time God will make everything beautiful. So I just wait for the will of God to be done on this regard.

  • September 27

    I'm not bored with single life; knowing that  even you had a boyfriend/girlfriend with you, but not appreciating his/her; is such a waste of time.

    I've watched some sermons from Pastor Bong Saquing ( the topic were  about marriage and relationship), he quoted " it is better  to be alone than to bring the devil along."

    Since then, i tend to remind  myself on that matter.

    September 27 updated by JEMIMA484

  • October 14

    I think God has created a sense of longing in us for a partner, for He has said it is not good for man to live alone. However, at the same tiime He wants us to value the relationship we ought to have with Him because i believe one who does not love or have a relationship with God cannot fully love or uphold a relationship with someone else, one cannot simply love if he or she has not come to know God (who is love). one ought to be spiritually commited to God before commiting to another person, without the first, there will always be a feeling lonliness even when with another person. so wait on the Lord!

  • October 17

    Do you think being too busy is a bad thing? I am a single person looking for a relationship. However I have come to realize that I have allowed myself to become so busy it seems like I have made that an excuse for not being able to commit to a relationship.

  • October 21

    Personally I think it's best to make the best life you can with what God has given you. I am an older single lady but the Lord has blessed me with wonderful friends and a large very dear family. Bloom where you are planted I guess & if God entrusts you with more it's all good!

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